Budgeteering Buddies

When sticking to a tight budget, it would be easy to focus on what’s suddenly missing. We have tried to stick to the “gratitude attitude.” A few weeks ago, Amy wrote about the value of a helping hand, and how she was able to help friends, even without spending money. (Way to go, Amy!) Not to wax too philosophically here, but we think it’s important to keep a karmic flow going – and that means still giving when on budget. It always seems amazing how things work out so splendidly when having a positive focus.

This past week, I (Rachel) was very fortunate to be on the receiving end of many wonderful things from friends and family. Heading to a training course, I knew a little planning would stretch the budget. Instead of spending nearly $300/night on a hotel room in downtown Chicago, my lovely aunt and uncle offered me their guest room in the ‘burbs’ and a train pass with a few left over punches! I did buy a weekend train pass for $7 and even splurged on a few taxi rides (for timing) and a V8 in the station for a veggie-full ride home. Even with the splurges, my total savings equaled more than $1100 if I had stayed in the hotel. A new, local friend I met in training offered to drop me at the station on her way home, saving me a few taxi fares and blisters! Even though I was closely watching my cash spending, I paid it forward by helping a stranded stranger – he was 50 cents short of a ride home and was having a rough day. With my two quarters added to his handful of change, he was a changed man. I met some wonderful people and really tried to share some positive thoughts. I came home with some spare dollars and a few new buddies. A BIG thanks - to all!

As the fab four so eloquently put it, we all “get by with a little help from our friends!” It doesn’t have to be hard or budget stressing to spread some love; a few unexpected kind words can go a long way! I’m hoping to think of other creative ways to share and give – what are your ideas? Thanksgiving is coming soon; how’s your attitude?